You create your condition continually through your thoughts.

Most people don’t want to hear that because they’ve been trained from an early age to believe “it’s gotta be something out there that’s causing me to feel the way I feel.”

And they can give you a hundred reasons why it is that way, and eventually from those thoughts (and your heart “pulling those thoughts back to you”) you start attracting people that think like you.

So, what happens is, you “get” the people that help you suffer, and then that becomes a culture.